Language and Attitude

Read on Yahoo! News:

People who are bicultural and speak two languages may unconsciously change their personality when they switch languages, according to a U.S. study.

[...] They found significant changes in self perception or “frame-shifting” in bicultural participants — women who participate in both Latino and Anglo culture.

Tell me about it… I’m a Colombian who lived 7 years in French Canada. Now I’m in the U.S. making use of my English skills. And while the study suggests the change of attitude is authomatic when switching languages, I wonder if the attitudes remain and become personality traits. Sometimes I’m looked at as a foreigner by people who have known me all my life. One of my college friends stopped talking to me because, according to her, I have changed to the point where she does not even recognize me.

Is this the result of a change in my perception of the world? Am I too Americanized now? According to the study, that seems to be the case. My guess is that speaking another language makes us less spontaneous because we’re still using a part of our brain we don’t when speaking the mother language.

Now that I think about it, my husband asked me if I have multiple personalities. I guess he is right…

Sick Day = Blog Change

Between naps and headaches, I managed to change a few things here. I don’t have a /blog directory anymore. My weblog is at betizuka.com. I will change the template a little later, and let it be for a while.

You can’t eat that in here!

When my co-workers and I go out to lunch, there is always someone who brings food from home. So there have been a couple of times when the person feels too shy about bringing her food in the restaurant, and we start giving her a hard time. My lines? “This is a free country!” or “We will be paying for food, what’s a seat?” or “Don’t be silly, you can bring your food inside, and if they tell you something we’ll give them crap.”

Well, this past weekend John and I were going to see a movie with a couple of friends, but we stopped to grab something to eat first. He wanted Panda Express, and I wanted nothing to do with MSG’s. So Wendy’s Drive-Thru it was from me, and then John stopped for his Chinese, but he wanted to go in. I started fussing and saying I felt bad about bringing Wendy’s into Panda Express, and he gave me exactly the same lines I give my co-worker. I brought my Wendy’s bag in, and sat in a corner where nobody could see us… ha ha ha!

Obviously I’m not the only person who worries about not eating food from a restaurant when taking their space. But now I’m curious about what people think about it. Am I being stupid? Yeah… Ermmm… Whatevs.

June KC Bloggers Meet-Up

It’s going to be Monday, June 23rd starting at 5:00 p.m.

Flying Saucer Draught Emporium
13th & Walnut
Kansas City, Mo

It’ll be pint night – all drafts $2.75.

The KC Power & Light district parking is within the same building complex and is only $2 with validation or lately you have to pay $2 to a dude right when you go into the garage. The lot across the street is a flat $5 if you park there after 5PM.

Please let Spyder know if you are coming so she can have a head count for tables.

Phone Book Invasion

I will never understand why we get a new phone book every other month. The last two we’ve gotten have gone directly in the trash because (GASPS!) I can’t recycle them. But really, who needs a new phone book every other month in the era of 411.com, Google Maps, GPS and all that?

I don’t need a different phone book for the county, city, metropolitan area, etc… WTF is with that? In Colombia your phone book is updated ever year, if you’re lucky to get one. There is only one company taking care of it, and sometimes you are the one who has to call them to get it. Here? They bombard you with a gazillion different kinds, and we personally use NONE.

Oh well… Another one to the trash can.