Monthly Archives: January 2009
Better Bea Happy!
I haven’t been too secretive about my current on-going funk AKA depression these days. However, I prefer not to dwell in it too much; probably because I’ve been reading The Secret (yes, yell at me!) and I believe that if I concentrate too much on the bad things I wouldn’t be helping myself. I’m doing what I have to do, I’m seeing whom I have to see, I have good days and bad days, I’m living.
One of the things I’ve been the most interested in all my life is Gratitude. I thank my parents for making me a grateful person, but more often than not I tend to forget all the things I should be thankful for. You know what they say… count your blessings… I forget to do that sometimes. So one of the many resolutions I have for this year is to actually document whatever I feel grateful for.
I signed up for an online gratitude journal, but I wasn’t feeling the love for it. I still use it, to post my 5 things every day, but I needed something more real (not just bits and bytes). Then I remembered I had started a paper gratitude journal more than a year ago. I just dug it from my night table and transferred the last week of things to be thankful for.
The exercise is quite easy, it takes just a couple of minutes, but it can change the way you see your life at that moment. It is really personal, so I won’t really share it, but I will recommend you if not to write them down, to think about every single good thing that happened to you during the day before you close your eyes and go to sleep. It’s not crap, it really helps.
Bea’s 4x4x4
Seen at Average Jane’s:
1. Go to the the 4th folder where you keep your pictures.
2. Post the 4th picture in the folder.
3. Explain the photo.
4. Tag 4 people. (It’s up to you!)

This photo was taken at the Overland Park Arboretum on 3/1/2008. It has a view of Margaret’s Pond (I don’t know who Margaret is, though… LOL). From the website: “The Arboretum is located on 300 ecologically diverse acres in southern Johnson County. Eight different ecosystems have been identified on the site, including rare plant species. Hiking trails wind their way through the Arboretum.”
Castro? Seriously?
This morning while having a discussion on Facebook about the way Obama is being attacked and criticized (another president task, we all know that), I read someone’s comment practically saying he’s not a good element because he was praised by Fidel Castro. Seriously? Don’t people have better things to come up with?
I know Fidel Castro is one of those people who bring shame to the human race, but I don’t believe his praise makes Barack Obama a good or bad person. Fidel Castro is, after all, another guy with an opinion. And I can clearly see why he would admire somebody who represents everything that is contrary to the previous U.S. administration. Isn’t that why Obama won the election in the first place? Yes, change was needed and wanted by the people who decided.
I understand the bitterness of the opposition is the same bitterness people who didn’t want Bush in the White House felt. It’s the same with every beginning of a new presidency; some people won’t agree with it, and will try to bring their own reasons why. It’s called freedom of speech, but sometimes I wonder if people actually read or watch the news to know what’s really going on.
I don’t think the world is blind. George W. Bush got on that helicopter and left behind a trail of deceit. An endless war that has cost the U.S. trillions of dollars. An economy crisis that is costing thousands of people their jobs, including some of my friends. He is, by all means (and I’m not saying it, the media says it), the most unpopular president in the history of the U.S.
So what is there to miss about the previous government? Or how are we supposed to believe that another Republican leader would’ve made things better? People wanted change, and they got it. I know what it feels like when a president has messed up big time and you want change. Alvaro Uribe assumed the presidency of Colombia exactly because of the same reason, and fortunately we have not been disappointed. That doesn’t mean, however, that he hasn’t been criticized. I for one am not blind to recognize he’s made mistakes, and I don’t think another re-election should be in his future plans.
To believe that it is Obama’s task to fix the problems of this country during his first week in office is idiotic. Give the guy a chance to prove every single American he can bring something good to this nation. From what I read this morning, he’s already gone from words to actions. He has to clean a big mess, and anyone who can’t see it hasn’t lived on this planet during the last 8 years.
44 is a Good Number

