Why Betizuka?

Some people think it’s a funny name and many have asked me “What does Betizuka mean?” That I don’t know, you will have to ask my friend Monica who coined the word one day while walking down to the library when we were in college back in 1994. She just called me Betizuka, I liked it and I kept it. I love how it sounds and I like the way my husband uses it when he’s looking for me at a store; it makes me laugh. It’s unique.

So thank you, Moni, for giving me my online presence name way ahead of time. :)

P.S. The whole saying bye-bye to the blog thing didn’t work.

Wanted: Inspiration

Now that I’ve changed my blog theme for the 583rd time, let’s hope I will actually post something. Meeting with the St. Louis bloggers this weekend made me realize I really need to catch up if I want to continue calling myself a blogger. Will stop blaming Twitter and Facebook.

Mario Benedetti Died Today

Mario Benedetti, a prolific Uruguayan writer whose novels and poems reflect the idiosyncrasies of Montevideo’s middle class and a social commitment forged by years in exile from a military dictatorship, died Sunday at his house in Montevideo, his secretary said. He was 88.

Called “Don Mario” by his friends, the mustachioed author penned more than 60 novels, poems, short stories and plays, winning honors including Bulgaria’s Jristo Borev award for poetry and essays in 1985, and Amnesty International’s Golden Flame in 1986. In 1999 he won the Queen Sofia prize for Iberoamerican poetry (Associated Press).

Why I won’t commit…

People seem obsessed with online projects where you have to do one thing, every single day, for a month, for a year, every week, etc. While I understand how cool it must be for some people, and sometimes I wish I could do it, I just won’t. Why? I don’t know… For me, anything that is supposed to be fun and becomes an obligation ends up not being fun.

I signed up for the Holidailies and before that one was over, I signed up for NaBloPoMo thinking I could do it. And then this weekend came, with important things happening, a friend dying, my having a mini-breakdown. So I didn’t post for 3 days straight and I felt guilty. That is stupid! Last night I said it wasn’t fun, this is a hobby, this is a blog… I left NaBloPoMo.

The 365 Project on Flickr has a great premise. But it didn’t work for me when I tried to do it. At the end of the day I was desperate looking for a photo to take because I simply forgot, as if I was getting paid to do it. And yes, I’m here thinking that everything in life requires a little bit of commitment, but like I said… I don’t want something I enjoy to become an obligation. I have enough of those already to make my online life another one.

I’m back to posting whenever I feel like it, without having to rummage through my brain looking for a subject that won’t make people yawn. And it feels great!