I thought I should write a little entry about the last couple of days. I want to thank everyone for their sympathy messages, e-mails and comments on behalf of my family; this is truly a very hard moment for us because grandma was the heart of this big group of people. Now we are left with her memories and the example she gave of unconditionnal love, service and solidarity; her endless stories and the satisfaction to know that she gave more than she could to us and society. She was a teacher who educated many people in this town and everyone remembers her with great admiration. For us, grandma was simply the personification of kindness and sweetness and she may not be a physical presence now, but her love lives inside each one of us in the family and the people whose lives were touched by her.
Being able to sit down to have a family lunch with my uncles, my aunts, my cousins, my brothers, my mom, and yet being able to laugh despite the sadness just shows what a great person my “abuelita” was, for she always gave us a reason to smile. She was always generous and selfishness was never a word in her dictionary because there was always a piece of bread on her table for everyone, friends and strangers, and she spent great part of her life serving those who were in real need. I feel proud (with the good pride) to say that this strong woman was unique, and that she was my grandma.
The last couple of days have been hectic. I took a plane on Sunday morning and arrived here in the evening; couldn’t make it to granny’s funeral but I know this is a gift from God, the fact that I could come and be with my family, and I can say with an open heart that I belong to family where love is always in stock and grows everyday. We went to pick up her ashes to put them in a church and the peace we experimented I’ve never been able to; it’s like she was right there protecting each one of us and we know she’s now resting in a place she definitely deserved.
I have lots and lots of stories she told us and maybe one day I’ll sit down and write them. For now I will embrace her memory and thank God for the many many years we had her here on earth and all the wonderful things she taught us. I miss her, yes I do! But we cannot be selfish pretending her to stay here forever… She’s now another angel.
:angel: What an awesome tribute to your “abuelita” who is surely smiling down at you and your family & what a wonderful ¨¨Angel¨¨ she is! Warm hugs
I feel the same way about my abuelita as you do about yours. They’re truly special, aren’t they? *hug*
It is truly a blessing to have known a wonderful person such as your “abuelita”. Yes, there’s now one more angel up there looking after you and your family.
You are blessed to be surrounded by so much love and warmth, it jumps out of the page even as you describe it. The gift that your grandma possessed – that which endeared her to those who’ve been lucky to cross paths with her – though you may not know it, shows through you. :smile:
Bea that is nice that you have such a wonderful family. I’m sure much of that is thanks to your grandma and a tribute to her being such a good mother, grandmother, and person! My grandma died five years ago and it’s *still* hard! Our sadness is our own – because we wish they could live on forever. But they are in a better more peaceful place, watching over us. :loveya:
Your Abuela sounds like a remarkable person Bea. You’re so blessed to have had many years with her as the center of your family. I would have loved to have had as much time with my grandma but she passed when I was 12. But she’s still with me in spirit as your abuela is with you. :smile:
Beautiful post Bea, you are so strong and I can see why, you have such a strong family right there with you, thanks for posting, I am glad to know that you are okay and are safe with your loved ones *hugs*
I’ll add your “abuelita” to my prayers and light acandle for her.
{gentle hugs}
My deepest and heart-felt sympathies to you and your family, Bea. That was indeed a beautiful and moving entry. I am so sorry for your loss and hope you and your family can share in the joy and wonder that this special woman brought into your lives.
You are in my prayers and in my thoughts. HUGS.
you and your family are in our thoughts.
Bea, once again, I’m very sorry to hear about your grandma. From all the times you and I chatted about her, I could tell she was the mainstay for your family. Again, my sympathies to you and your family.
Je T’aime Beatriz!
Bea, that was beautiful. I’m so sorry for your loss. ((HUGS))
This is not an easy time for you…but so long as you ahve friends to share it…it does get easier.
hugs bea